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Post by mousymom191 on Tue 08 Jan 2019, 5:44 am

Hi, I have 3 female mice and two of them are smaller compared to the other one. The bigger one has been chasing the other two and I just witnessed the big one vibrate her tail before attacking a small one. Should I remove the big one from the cage? Keep in mind I just got them so I dont't really know how to do that so honestly, I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP.

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Post by Peachy on Tue 08 Jan 2019, 10:35 am

Size can sometimes be a factor in how mice get along with each other. The tail rattling is a warning that she’s feeling threatened or irritated. It’s normal and we don’t usually recommended separating unless blood is drawn or someone is being kept away from food and water and the nest.
If you notice blood or any more extreme bullying, pluck the bully out and put her in a time out tank for a few days. This will make her more appreciative of friends, give everyone an opportunity to calm down, and give you some time to get everyone as tame as possible. Tame mice often do much better in introductions.

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Post by mousymom191 on Tue 08 Jan 2019, 9:13 pm

@Peachy wrote:Size can sometimes be a factor in how mice get along with each other. The tail rattling is a warning that she’s feeling threatened or irritated. It’s normal and we don’t usually recommended separating unless blood is drawn or someone is being kept away from food and water and the nest.
If you notice blood or any more extreme bullying, pluck the bully out and put her in a time out tank for a few days. This will make her more appreciative of friends, give everyone an opportunity to calm down, and give you some time to get everyone as tame as possible. Tame mice often do much better in introductions.
Sorry about the constant worrying and questions... I'm very new to this. One of my mice have been sitting/resting on their rope bridge that hangs over the cage for about 20 minutes now and she's never really done this. Do you think it's to get away from the aggressive mouse? Also, is there a reason for why my one mouse may be so ruthless on the others? The "bullying" just doesn't seem to be getting better... lots of wrestling, loud squeaks... etc. The only positive now is that they still sleep together.
So... basically here are my questions:
1) Why is my smaller mouse perching/resting on the bridge for a long amount of time?
2) Why is my bigger mouse bullying so much?
3) What is usual for female mouse disagreements?
4) When should I expect this is stop?
5) I heard taking out the bully for a few days will actually make it worse... does this have any merit?

It's just hard to see my mice being picked on constantly (just happened while I'm typing this) and I just want to know as much info about this as possible to make me feel better about it. Worry

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Post by Peachy on Wed 09 Jan 2019, 1:56 pm

How long have you had these mice and how long has the bully been bullying? It can take a couple weeks for everything to settle down after you've brought them home. How big is your enclosure? If it's too large it can make the alpha feel more out of control OR cause your mice to split, which would contribute to the fighting. It’s impossible to say why the mouse is sitting in her bridge, just keep an eye on her to see if she returns to the nest and gets food and water.

You don’t want to constantly be removing and reintroducing, this CAN cause more problems than it solves. But giving her a time out can help her learn that she actually enjoys having friends. This might take more than a few days and you may have to push it to a couple weeks. This has solved problems for many colonies!

Arguing is normal, some mice do it more than others. Mounting, chasing, squeaking, slapping is all normal behaviors and basically just the mouse’s way of telling her friends that their doing something she doesn’t like. Mice live in hierarchies and it’s necessary for them to sort out who’s who. When mice lock into a little rolling, fighting ball it’s more than a disagreement and is what usually causes injuries. If you see this it’s ok to separate. If you’re having trouble working out if you should interfere or not, feel free to post a video and we can help.

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Post by mousymom191 on Wed 09 Jan 2019, 2:12 pm

@Peachy wrote:How long have you had these mice and how long has the bully been bullying? It can take a couple weeks for everything to settle down after you've brought them home. How big is your enclosure? If it's too large it can make the alpha feel more out of control OR cause your mice to split, which would contribute to the fighting. It’s impossible to say why the mouse is sitting in her bridge, just keep an eye on her to see if she returns to the nest and gets food and water.

You don’t want to constantly be removing and reintroducing, this CAN cause more problems than it solves. But giving her a time out can help her learn that she actually enjoys having friends. This might take more than a few days and you may have to push it to a couple weeks. This has solved problems for many colonies!

Arguing is normal, some mice do it more than others. Mounting, chasing, squeaking, slapping is all normal behaviors and basically just the mouse’s way of telling her friends that their doing something she doesn’t like. Mice live in hierarchies and it’s necessary for them to sort out who’s who. When mice lock into a little rolling, fighting ball it’s more than a disagreement and is what usually causes injuries. If you see this it’s ok to separate. If you’re having trouble working out if you should interfere or not, feel free to post a video and we can help.
I've had the mice for almost 2 weeks now and I'm pretty sure I first time I heard bullying was 1/4 (friday). After hearing that it'll take a little while definitely makes me feel better. My enclosure is 525 sq inches I believe ( it's a 116 gal bin cage). I'm going to try to get a video of them tonight. Thanks so much!

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Post by mousymom191 on Wed 09 Jan 2019, 9:19 pm

@Peachy wrote:How long have you had these mice and how long has the bully been bullying? It can take a couple weeks for everything to settle down after you've brought them home. How big is your enclosure? If it's too large it can make the alpha feel more out of control OR cause your mice to split, which would contribute to the fighting. It’s impossible to say why the mouse is sitting in her bridge, just keep an eye on her to see if she returns to the nest and gets food and water.

You don’t want to constantly be removing and reintroducing, this CAN cause more problems than it solves. But giving her a time out can help her learn that she actually enjoys having friends. This might take more than a few days and you may have to push it to a couple weeks. This has solved problems for many colonies!

Arguing is normal, some mice do it more than others. Mounting, chasing, squeaking, slapping is all normal behaviors and basically just the mouse’s way of telling her friends that their doing something she doesn’t like. Mice live in hierarchies and it’s necessary for them to sort out who’s who. When mice lock into a little rolling, fighting ball it’s more than a disagreement and is what usually causes injuries. If you see this it’s ok to separate. If you’re having trouble working out if you should interfere or not, feel free to post a video and we can help.
Hi again just an update: today I noticed that there was a piece of one of my mouse's ear missing. I've decided to remove the bully and place her in a cage same size with bedding from the original cage. How long do you think she should stay in time out? I really think that this will be good for them Smile

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Post by Peachy on Wed 09 Jan 2019, 10:17 pm

I like to do 2-3 weeks. Others only separate for a few days. This is up to you, but I’d give it a longer time so you can really work on bonding with the bully yourself. How’s her temperament when your around? What about the others?

This also gives everyone time to relax and heal. It’s a thing to give dogs “cortisol vacations” after a stressful event, and it’s beneficial to do the same for mice in these situations. When they’re reintroduced, ideally everyone will go in with a calmer state of mind after a couple weeks of recuperating.

When you reintroduce I would recommend starting them in something smaller than their bin. A 10 gallon tank is a good size for bonding, quarantine, taming, etc. When they’re all doing well and getting along you can upgrade them again.

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Post by mousymom191 on Wed 09 Jan 2019, 10:59 pm

@Peachy wrote:I like to do 2-3 weeks. Others only separate for a few days. This is up to you, but I’d give it a longer time so you can really work on bonding with the bully yourself. How’s her temperament when your around? What about the others?

This also gives everyone time to relax and heal. It’s a thing to give dogs “cortisol vacations” after a stressful event, and it’s beneficial to do the same for mice in these situations. When they’re reintroduced, ideally everyone will go in with a calmer state of mind after a couple weeks of recuperating.

When you reintroduce I would recommend starting them in something smaller than their bin. A 10 gallon tank is a good size for bonding, quarantine, taming, etc. When they’re all doing well and getting along you can upgrade them again.
She's pretty calm and not agressive when she's around me... Although she's still skittish. And pretty much same with my other two. Thanks so much for the advice, I'll wait 3 weeks and do the 10 gallon reintroduction. Really hoping it helps the fighting... I'll let you know if I have any other questions Smile

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